Alfred Stern

Understand the Relationships

  • Father of: Andrea Stern, Karen Stern Brenner-Stein

  • Grandfather of: Shelly Spiegel, Terry Spiegel Thal, Jamie Spiegel Levick, Brad Spiegel, Wendy Brenner Palat, Mitchel Brenner, Dan Meredith-Stein

  • Great Grandfather of: Ben Spiegel, Will Spiegel, Olivia Levick, Harrison Levick, Stephanie Palat, Max Palat, Indy Meredith-Stein, Huck Meredith-Stein, Seegar Meredith-Stein

Photos

When we think of Alfred, we think of ... Trident gum, going to see deer, running carpools driver, messy desk, manure, irrigation, bushel baskets, packing shed, snake, crates, Uncle Leonard, Calvin, Grant Ave., El Camino, Miami, FL, history, Rush Limbaugh (not a fan), football, poker, checkers, chess, going to a Rolling Stones concert with Terry and Jamie, animal lover, baked beans, borscht with sour cream, verenikas, jelly omelettes, Jelly Krimpets, chocolate, ice cream with butterscotch, blueberry pies, bananas, blueberries, strawberries, sugar, butter, cream, frosting, Cybil Shepard, Phil Donahue ...

Audio Recordings

On March 2, 1997, I interviewed my grandfather, Alfred Stern, about our family history. As you probably know, he was a fabulous story teller. Below are the digital recordings from that day.

Part 1: 30 minutes

Part 2: 30 minutes

Part 3: 30 minutes

Part 4: 30 minutes

My Granddad's Story

On February 25, 2006, "My Granddad's Story" premiered to a roomful of family members. My Granddad's Story is fast-paced presentation, set to music, that tells the story of my grandfather's life. The presentation was shown for a second time at The Stern Family reunion in June 2010 prior to his 95th birthday.

To make the presentation easier to view, I've broken it down into eight very watchable segments.

Part 1
1870 - 1936
9 minutes, 07 seconds

Part 2
The Farm
1 minute, 22 seconds

Part 3
The Stern Family
2 minutes, 17 seconds

Part 4
Farmer Takes A Wife: Ruth
2 minutes, 23 seconds

Part 5
Children (Andrea & Karen)
1 minute, 07 seconds

Part 6
Cutest Couple
2 minutes, 24 seconds

Part 7
Friendship
2 minutes, 44 seconds

Part 8
Personality
2 minutes, 05 seconds

Birth

Alfred Stern was a twin. He and his twin brother, Albert, were born in Kerhonkson, New York on December 20, 1914. At times, people might have thought Alfred and Albert had triplet brother. That's because their oldest sister, Anna Stern Wiezel, had a son, Lawrence Earl Wiezel, who was the same age as them and they (Alfred, Albert, and Lawrence Earl) were always together.

2+2+2 ...
Atlantic City Press,
March 2, 1984

Residences

When Alfred was 11 months old, he and his family moved from Kerhonkson, New York to South Bay, Saint John, New Brunswick, Canada where they lived for 14 years. In 1929, Alfred and his family moved to Vineland, New Jersey.

Education

Alfred graduated from Vineland high school in 1933. He was third in his class. Upon graduation, he and his twin brother, Albert, attended South Jersey Law School at night while working on their father's farm at night.

Class Of '33 Has Final Fling
The Daily Journal
August 23, 2002

Spelling Bee
Winner

Occupation

While attending law school, Samuel made Alfred and Albert an offer they could not refuse. He asked them to drop out of law school and join him in the farming business. To sweeten the deal, Samuel told them that he would pay them $25 a week, which was a lot of money back then. They agreed and for the next 43 years, Alfred and Albert worked as farmers until they retired in 1979. When they sold their farm business, Samuel Stern & Sons, it was one of the largest produce farms on the East Coast with 200 acres of land.

We have it good here ...
Sunday Gazette
May 30, 1971

Samuel Stern & Sons,
The Bank of New Jersey
1974

Despite Mother Nature, farmers continue to trek to S. Jersey,
The Daily Journal
July 23, 1990

Farm Auction
February 27, 1980

Alfred was proud to be a farmer. Below are three clippings that resonated with him.

Nothing stops overalled executives

Farmers are the biggest gamblers

The Tomato How Sweet Is Is!

80th Birthday

In 1994, Alfred and Albert celebrated their 80th birthdays together in New York City with their families.

Dan Stein
Grandson
Typed version

Dan Stein
Grandson
Handwritten version

Obituary

Alfred Stern passed away on June 23, 2011 at the age of 96.

The Daily Journal
June 25, 2011

Eulogy by Shelly Spiegel
Granddaughter